Over the summer, we celebrated 30 years of knowing each other.

❤️ 30 years since our first date.

❤️ 30 years since our first kiss.

❤️ And last month was our 28th anniversary.

As we get ready to celebrate Thanksgiving, we wanted to reflect on everything we've been through these last three decades...

So we wrote down 28 things we're grateful for after 28 years of marriage. Click here to read the list.​

Love you guys,

Tony & Alisa

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As we reflect on the last 28 years of marriage, we want to share 28 things we’re grateful for.

We encourage you to spend some time this season doing the same: reflect on what you’re grateful for in your own marriage.

Here's a snippet of what we're grateful for...

• Each Other
• Our Family
• Laughter
• Sex
• Second Chances
• Hormone Therapy
• Walk and Talks
• A Strong Community
• Our First Date
• Boundaries
• Our Differences

​Read the full list here >>​

Today's Trivia

Question: What percentage of married women say that they can have multiple orgasms in a given sexual encounter?

A. 25%

B. 45%

C. 65%

D. 85%

⬇️ Scroll to the end for the answer.

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Gift-Giving Research Says WHAT?!

Gift giving is one of the major subjects on our minds this time of year. To be a really successful “giver of gifts,” you may feel that you need to spend a lot of money... or come up with creative ideas all on your own without the assistance of your spouse.

Turns out that’s not the case! (Science even says so.)

Here are 3 surprising facts about gift giving:

1. Thoughtful gifts don’t necessarily lead to greater appreciation.

Some gift givers spend time and energy trying to find just the right gift. But studies have found that it's actually the gift giver who benefits most from giving a thoughtful gift! It causes them to feel a deeper sense of closeness to that person.

2. People are more appreciative when they receive a gift they have explicitly requested.

According to a study published in the Journal of Experimental Social Psychology, “It turns out it’s not the thought that counts, it’s the gift that counts."

3. Spending more money on a gift doesn’t necessarily translate into greater appreciation.

Another study found spending more money on a gift doesn’t necessarily translate into greater appreciation.

So if you think you have to dream up giant sentimental gifts, crack the code without any help on what to get, or dish out a lot of dollars to be an outstanding gift giver this year—you don’t!

Every year we pull together a hit list of awesome idea-generating lists for our readers, and here’s an early sneak peek of what’s already live:

​Top 12 Christmas Gifts for Your Wife​

​Top 12 Christmas Gifts for Your Husband​

​20 Menopause Gift Ideas ​

​21 Sexy Christmas Gift Ideas​

​12 Empty Nest Gift Ideas​

​25 Awesome Stocking Stuffer Ideas​

We hope this hit list gives you a great start to your holiday gift giving so you can stress less and enjoy the time with your partner even more.

If you know anyone else in a marriage that could use these great gift giving guides, please forward this on to them!

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Today's Trivia Answer

Question: What percentage of married women say that they can have multiple orgasms in a given sexual encounter?

A. 25%

B. 45%

C. 65%

D. 85%

There isn't a lot of data on the topic of multiple orgasms (due to the private and self-reported nature), but approximately 45% of married women say that they can have multiple orgasms in a given sexual encounter. For married men, it's about 20%.

Everyone’s body, preferences, and experiences are different.

It’s not a competition about which spouse can have more orgasms, but it is important to open the conversation for growth in this area.

Having multiple orgasms isn't necessary something that will make your marriage better or worse, but let's not shy away from the topic!

​Tune in to our conversation about multiple orgasms >>​

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