❤️ Can 10 Days Change Your Marriage?


Only 13% of the ONE Family say their Spiritual Intimacy Pillar is where they want it to be.

If you're part of the 87% desiring deeper spiritual intimacy with your spouse, we have a challenge for you.

For the next 10 days, pray over your spouse and your marriage.

Set aside a few minutes, talk with God, and be intentional about strengthening this pillar of your marriage (even if you're doing it alone).

To help you out, we've created a simple 10 Day Prayer Challenge that you can start today!

Love you guys,

Tony & Alisa

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Are you at a point where you want to pray for your spouse and your marriage but aren’t sure where to start?

Or have you prayed before but fallen out of practice?

A prayer challenge can be a great solution to give your spiritual intimacy a boost.

Over the years, we have been in this exact place.

We had every intention of praying, but we weren’t doing it. There were times of procrastination, the “I’ll get to it later,” or the blatant “I’m not praying today.”

Each one of these excuses kept us from truly experiencing the spiritual intimacy we desired in our lives and for our marriage.

What we have learned is that without a plan, your plans will fail.

That's why we created a simple, 10 Day Prayer Challenge to help you strengthen your spiritual intimacy with quick verses and prayer prompts.

Click here to start the prayer challenge >>

Today's Trivia

Question: What percentage of couples in the ONE Family make New Year's Resolutions?

A. 19%

B. 38%

C. 57%

D. 76%

⬇️ Scroll to the end for the answer.

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9 Ways to Have a Sexy Holiday

We’re reaching the time of year when the festivities are at an all-time high. Will you take advantage of the romantic atmosphere or let the season’s busyness wreck your love life?

Here are 9 ideas to help you enjoy the most wonderful time of the year with your spouse:

1. New Sex Toys

Sexy toys are a great way to spice up your holiday season. It’s a fun new experience the two of you can share. Plus, the fun continues into the new year.

2. Plan a Sexy Weekend Getaway

In the midst of busy schedules, stress, and sickness, intentional time with your spouse often lands on the back burner. Make this holiday season extra special (and sexy!) by getting away together.

3. Boudoir Photo Album

Why not schedule a boudoir photo shoot and give your spouse the photo album? Or take your own photos with a selfie timer and print them at home.

4. His & Hers Stocking Stuffers

This holiday season, keep small stockings in your bedroom. Then, fill them with sexy gifts for the two of you to enjoy. For example, slip a bottle of Überlube into the stocking and prompt your spouse to open it the next time you are having sex.

5. Be The Sexy Gift!

Keep it simple: Invite your spouse to bed while you wear a big red bow. In essence, you are the gift!

6. Sexy Furniture

Several couples in the ONE Family love the Liberator collection of sex wedges, ramps, and pillows. The holiday season is the perfect time to add sexy furniture to your toolbox.

7. Take on a Sex Challenge

Have the two of you always wanted to try a sex challenge? This year, make it happen! For example, you could begin the 7 Days of Sex Challenge one week before Christmas. What a fun and sexy way to celebrate the holiday!

8. Give a Sexy Massage

It’s a busy and often stressful time of the year. Give your spouse a relaxing break with a sexy massage this holiday season!

9. Go on a Holiday Date

There are so many fun and romantic activities to do during the holiday season. Remember, romance is a vital component of sexual intimacy!

Today's Trivia Answer

Question: What percentage of couples in the ONE Family make New Year's Resolutions?

A. 19%

B. 38%

C. 57%

D. 76%

In the ONE Family, only 38% of you make New Year's Resolutions!

We get it. Often, resolutions are just words on a page. Without action, you won't see any of the results you want.

If you want 24 simple steps you can take to strengthen your marriage in 2025, check out our New Year's Bingo Card for married couples!

It's the simplest and most exciting way to make "new year, new marriage" a reality.

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Hey we're Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

We are the co-authors of the Amazon best seller, The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and 7 Days of Sex Challenge book. We believe that the healthy combination of sex, love, and commitment is more than the foundation of a strong marriage… it’s the glue that will keep a marriage together. We write, podcast, and coach couples around the world. We have been married since 1996 and have a son and a daughter. We live in Naples, FL

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