💖 7 Marriage Hacks for More Love & Connection


Looking for a few quick ways to breathe life into your marriage this year? ❤️ We’ve got you covered!

In today’s article, we’re sharing 7 marriage hacks that will help you build trust, deepen connection, and make your love last.

From asking the right questions to embracing a sex challenge (and everything in between), these hacks are all about getting back to basics.

Plus, we've included tons of resources to help you succeed every step of the way.

Love you guys,

Tony & Alisa

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In 1996, we said, “I do.” Since then, we have experienced life.

There have been highs, lows, wins, and challenges.

And in all that time, we’ve learned some powerful lessons about how to make love last!

So, if you want to breathe new life into your marriage, don’t miss these top seven marriage hacks.

These are more than just tips or ideas, by the way.

A hack is defined as “a strategy or technique for managing one’s time or activities more efficiently.”

And, for the sake of this article, the “activity” you want to manage more effectively (and extraordinarily!) is your marriage.

Apply these liberally and watch your marriage transform.

And make sure to read to the end. We save the best for last!

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Today's Trivia

Question: Approximately what percentage of people who set New Year's resolutions actually complete them?

A. 9%

B. 26%

C. 43%

D. 60%

⬇️ Scroll to the end for the answer.

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Today's Trivia Answer

Question: Approximately what percentage of people who set New Year's resolutions actually complete them?

A. 9%

B. 26%

C. 43%

D. 60%

How many times have you set a New Year’s resolution only to abandon it within a few days or weeks?

Clearly, you’re not alone! Only 9% of people who set New Year's resolutions actually complete them...

But when it comes to achieving goals, your marriage is too important to give up on.

You just need a plan.

Without a plan, you won’t know what actions to take, how to get where you want to go, or why it even matters.

But when you get focused and take action, things begin to shift.

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Hey we're Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

We are the co-authors of the Amazon best seller, The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and 7 Days of Sex Challenge book. We believe that the healthy combination of sex, love, and commitment is more than the foundation of a strong marriage… it’s the glue that will keep a marriage together. We write, podcast, and coach couples around the world. We have been married since 1996 and have a son and a daughter. We live in Naples, FL

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