Hey Reader, Have you ever been so focused on what your spouse doesn't do that you overlook what they are doing? Tony has mentioned more than once that he'd love for me to reach over and touch his leg when we're driving. But during a recent episode, I reminded him that there are plenty of other times when I initiate physical affection. His reaction was pretty interesting, and it led to a conversation about what we sometimes overlook in marriage. ▶️ Watch this 5-minute clip to see how the...

Hey Reader, How does a tube of toothpaste turn into “You don’t respect me”? It happens when a small habit starts feeling personal. In this 3-minute clip, we share how the story you attach to your spouse’s behavior can create a much bigger argument. (Watch before the next little annoyance gets under your skin!) ▶️ Click here to watch the clip P.S. We know it’s early, but the best time to talk about your Christmas budget is BEFORE you start spending. These 3 steps will help you protect your...

Hey Reader, How do you respond when you ask your spouse a meaningful question…and they don’t have an answer? That happened while we were recording an episode a few weeks ago, and we worked through it in real time. It was a good reminder that it’s okay to need time before answering a deep question (and the spouse asking doesn’t have to take that hesitation personally). ▶️ Watch the interaction here 🤔 We're curious... Do you need time to think before answering deeper questions? Share your...